My messy bedroom

[Ksenia]

Привет. Я не уходила а перешла в рид онли, по некоторым причинам.

А меня читала ?🙂 Со стороны я хорошо держусь в высшем обществе парафиликов? Как леди ?🙂

 

[Ksenia]

))) Ты да.

Спасибо. 🙂 Стараюсь быть послушной, пакладистой. Вот даже Данте послушалась, когда конфликт был недавно, пост удалила, который ему не понравился. Раньше бы спорила, а сейчас уступаю...Я выбрал пока гендер non-binary из списка, поэтому буду переключаться с м на ж периодически 🙂

 

[Silas]

I know that queer theory is used in the western educational system. Paraphilias is technical terms which is used by sexologists, not by queer and gender theorists. According to queer theory I am asexual transwoman.

yeah i still owe you an answer. sorry. when i was at school we havent gone deep into the topic. we were told lgbt exists and that was basically it. i think they are more modern now and talk about more stuff. if my sexuality is paraphilia, fine. i dont bother anyone and im happy to be myself

 

[Ksenia]

yeah i still owe you an answer. sorry. when i was at school we havent gone deep into the topic. we were told lgbt exists and that was basically it. i think they are more modern now and talk about more stuff. if my sexuality is paraphilia, fine. i dont bother anyone and im happy to be myself

Paraphilia and sexual orientation are poor defined concepts. Some scientists claim that women don't have sexual orientation, other suggest that sexual orientation and sexual interest are different things, etc. It is complicated. Look at this article for example...
(PDF) What is Sexual Orientation and Do Women Have One?

The term paraphilia is used not due to science, but due to medical traditions. Krafft-Ebing in the 19 century described several sexual peculiarities in his famous book and he gave them names, and such names began to be used by medical community, but such entities can be not a real taxons at all. In fact there is a lack of taxometric analyses of such things.

 

[A.Sputnik]

Я заболела после стресса на форуме - у меня вылезла экзема из-за стресса, давно не было такого обострения.

бан Дока активировал травму судя по всему.

Мне кажется, здесь ещё сыграло то, что и до этого существовало напряжение в общении с Борисом Вилоровичем. Все эти разговоры про задверку и прочее.
Я это не к тому, чтобы всё это сейчас перетирать, нет. Я это к тому, что и само состояние может изменится, если изменится дискурс в вашем общении. А он меняется, на мой взгляд.
Короче, иди отдыхай, пожалуйста 🙂 санаторно-курортный режим - отдых, сон, витаминки, гулять. Ты нам любая нужна, но здоровенькая особенно.

 

[Silas]

Paraphilia and sexual orientation are poor defined concepts. Some scientists claim that women don't have sexual orientation, other suggest that sexual orientation and sexual interest are different things, etc. It is complicated. Look at this article for example ...
(PDF) What is Sexual Orientation and Do Women Have One?

The term paraphilia is used not due to science, but due to medical traditions. Krafft-Ebing in the 19 century described several sexual peculiarities in his famous book and he gave them names, and such names began to be used by medical community, but such entities can be not a real taxons at all. In fact there is a lack of taxometric analyzes of such things.

women tend to be equally aroused on men and on women (i read in the article)? sounds like a cap to me. okay, im not a sexologiest but still. women are definitely more open-minded, perhaps there are more bisexuals among them. but bisexuality is also a sexual orientation, innit?

its said in the article

A heterosexual couple consists of a man and a woman, and thus, both homosexual and heterosexual men can be aroused by watching such a couple, presumably by focusing on the actor of their preferred sex. Indeed, homosexual and heterosexual men tend to experience similar degrees of arousal to videos of hetero sexual couples

for me it was different or maybe i didnt reflect on it much. time to do some new experiments lol

oh now i got to the part about bixeality, thats interesting.
Our study failed to find good evidence for a bisexual arousal pattern
juju must be sad as hell here. maybe they really didn't find such examples. ive met bisexuals. my close friend is bisexual. but of course i did not put any experiments on him

ok so i understood that women have no sexual orientation cuz there are many bisexuals among them but no pedophiles. and there are no bisexual men. my whole life was a lie lol

 

[Ksenia]

juju must be sad as hell here. maybe they really didn't find such examples. ive met bisexuals. my close friend is bisexual. but of course i did not put any experiments on him

When I was young (18-24 years old) I also identified myself as bisexual, but it wasn't true.

 

[Ksenia]

women tend to be equally aroused on men and on women (i read in the article)? sounds like a cap to me. okay, im not a sexologiest but still. women are definitely more open-minded, perhaps there are more bisexuals among them. but bisexuality is also a sexual orientation, innit?

its said in the article

A heterosexual couple consists of a man and a woman, and thus, both homosexual and heterosexual men can be aroused by watching such a couple, presumably by focusing on the actor of their preferred sex. Indeed, homosexual and heterosexual men tend to experience similar degrees of arousal to videos of hetero sexual couples

for me it was different or maybe i didnt reflect on it much. time to do some new experiments lol

oh now i got to the part about bixeality, thats interesting.
Our study failed to find good evidence for a bisexual arousal pattern
juju must be sad as hell here. maybe they really didn't find such examples. ive met bisexuals. my close friend is bisexual. but of course i did not put any experiments on him

ok so i understood that women have no sexual orientation cuz there are many bisexuals among them but no pedophiles. and there are no bisexual men. my whole life was a lie lol

I think that sexual orientation is psychophysiological mechanism which hones pattern of sexual arousal, orient sexuality to particular target or activity. And males usually have very rigid pattern which difficult to change. I have a paraphilic pattern of sexual arousal. And I have been trying to change it for 19 years. And I failed. Women on the other hand don't have such limitations in the sexual realm, they can change easily their pattern of sexual behaviours. Males on the other hand are stuck with specific pattern of sexual arousal for life. They are lucky if their pattern is adaptive(heteroseuxal or homosexual) and they are unlucky in the case of pedophilic arousal pattern.

 

[Silas]

When I was young (18-24 years old) I also identified myself as bisexual, but it wasn't true.

well your a single case

I think that sexual orientation is psychophysiological mechanism which hones pattern of sexual arousal, orient sexuality to particular target or activity. And males usually have very rigid pattern which difficult to change. I have a paraphilic pattern of sexual arousal. And I have been trying to change it for 19 years. And I failed. Women on the other hand don't have such limitations in the sexual realm, they can change easily their pattern of sexual behaviours. Males on the other hand are stuck with specific pattern of sexual arousal for life. They are lucky if their pattern is adaptive(heteroseuxal or homosexual) and they are unlucky in the case of pedophilic arousal pattern.

thats why i dont see the point trying to do that. also about bisexuals. i had a thing with couple of them. it always turned out they had girlfriends. so what. i only had to insist a little and they would be mine? omg.

 

[Silas]

You know, I'll get him no matter what 🙂

you are the best conversion therapy, dont forget