How to increase heterosexual component?

[Ksenia]

Here is a very intresting new article about sexual orientation. Toward a Theoretical Understanding of Sexual Orientation and Sexual Motivation (PDF Download Available)

 

[dok34.ru]

Yes, very interesting article, thanx!
I have not read everything yet, but interested in approaches to motivation.

 

[Diamond]

It's incredible how reparative therapy is used for conversion an homosexual to heterosexuality and not toward bisexuality. I think this is why it is not ethically correct the first definition!
Now it is time to change the definition! 🙂

 

[dok34.ru]

It's incredible how reparative therapy is used for conversion an homosexual to heterosexuality and not toward bisexuality. I think this is why it is not ethically correct the first definition!
Now it is time to change the definition! 🙂

Good afternoon!
At this forum, for a number of reasons, the conversion of homosexual into bisexual is more often discussed.
Homosexual, gay, or lesbian - usually afraid of losing their habitual sexuality. In Russian it sounds "I have a bird in my hand, I'm afraid to change it for a crane in the sky."
The crane is potentially large, but it is not known whether it will work out or not. A titmouse is small, but it's in the hands!
Therefore, the request for treatment often includes such a condition - not to deprive a person of choice, to give the opportunity to choose independently after receiving heterosexual attraction and behavior.
I support this option.
However, in many cases people want to get rid of homosexuality, and on the contrary they are asked to make them "pure" heterosexuals.
For example - with such a request, an Orthodox priest or a good Catholic turns.
I also respect such a request, such an option.

Buon pomeriggio!
In questo forum, per una serie di motivi, la conversione dell'omosessuale in bisessuale è più spesso discussa.
Homosexual, gay o lesbiche - di solito paura di perdere la loro sessualità abituale. In russo suona "Ho un uccello in mano, ho paura di cambiarlo per una gru nel cielo".
La gru è potenzialmente grande, ma non è noto se funzionerà o meno. Un titmouse è piccolo, ma è nelle mani!
Pertanto, la richiesta di trattamento spesso include una tale condizione - per non privare una persona a scelta, per dare l'opportunità di scegliere in modo indipendente dopo aver ricevuto l'attrazione e il comportamento eterosessuali.
Sostengo questa opzione.
Tuttavia, in molti casi la gente vuole sbarazzarsi dell'omosessualità e, al contrario, viene chiesto di renderli eterosessuali "puri".
Ad esempio, con una tale richiesta, un prete ortodosso o una buona svolta cattolica.
Rispondo anche tale richiesta, una tale opzione.

Добрый день!
На этом форуме по ряду причин чаще обсуждается именно преобразование гомосексуала в бисексуала.
Гомосексуал, гей*, или лесбиянка - обычно опасаются утратить свою привычную сексуальность. По русски это звучит "имею синицу в руках, боюсь поменять её на журавля в небе".
Журавль - это потенциально большое, но неизвестно - получится ли или нет получить. А синица - маленькая, но она вот, в руках!
Поэтому в запрос на лечение часто входит такое условие - не лишать человека выбора, дать возможность выбирать самостоятельно _после_ получения гетеросексуального влечения и поведения.
Я уважаю и поддерживаю этот вариант.
Однако во многих случаях людям хочется избавиться от гомосексуальности, и они наоборот - просят сделать их "чистыми" гетеросексуалами.
Например - с такой просьбой обращается православный священник или добрый католик.
Я уважаю и такой запрос, такой вариант.

 

[Diamond]

A lot of people are afraid of their homosexual habits. I am not. But I want to increase my heterosexual attraction because I want to marry a woman, I prefer to have a baby with her. During today and that day I think I can "have fun" with whoever I want.
Damn, it does not exist a psychologist here in Italy who supports us 🙂 they are hidden

 

[Ksenia]

Damn, it does not exist a psychologist here in Italy who supports us 🙂 they are hidden

What about psychologists from Vatican ?🙂 Vatican is pretty close to Italy, and I think most of its citizens (including psychologists) will support your endeavour 🙂

 

[Ksenia]

I had conversation with Richard Krueger (Ссылка на интересное) and he said that we can try to use dopamine agonists, they can work

 

[Diamond]

Could you explain better?

 

[dok34.ru]

Sorry, I'm distracted from your topic. I hope that I will be able to reply more tonight.
Scusa, sono distratto dal tuo argomento. Spero di poter rispondere di più stasera.

 

[dok34.ru]

A lot of people are afraid of their homosexual habits. I am not. But I want to increase my heterosexual attraction because I want to marry a woman, I prefer to have a baby with her. During today and that day I think I can "have fun" with whoever I want.
Damn, it does not exist a psychologist here in Italy who supports us 🙂 they are hidden

To me for an answer, a reliable answer - a little more information is needed.
Briefly - if there is a reason that makes heterosexual contact shameful, potentially dangerous or threatening - then you must first eliminate this cause, even if it seems to have been left behind long ago, left in the past ..
Otherwise, the story of a "married gay" arises when at first a person is addicted, and then, in a year or so and a half, the desire decreases ..

Per me, per una risposta, una risposta affidabile, sono necessarie ulteriori informazioni.
In breve - se c'è una ragione che rende il contatto eterosessuale vergognoso, potenzialmente pericoloso o minaccioso - allora devi prima eliminare questa causa, anche se sembra che sia stata lasciata indietro molto tempo fa, lasciata nel passato ..
Altrimenti, la storia di un "gay sposato" sorge quando all'inizio una persona è dipendente, e poi, in un anno o giù di lì, il desiderio diminuisce ..

Мне для ответа, достоверного ответа - необходимо немного больше информации.
Коротко - если есть причина, делающая гетеросексуальный контакт стыдным, потенциально опасным или угрожающим - то необходимо сначала устранить эту причину, даже если она кажется оставшейся давно забытой, оставшейся в прошлом..
Иначе - возникает история "женатого гея", когда вначале человек увлекается, а затем ,через год-полтора примерно - желание уменьшается..