Ничего она не под вопросом и не в опасности, если вопрос секса и спальни не распространяется болезненно на другие сферы жизни.
Ну хорошо, cейчас ради тебя открыла книгу Beier K. M., Loewit K. K. Sexual medicine in clinical practice. – Springer Science & Business Media, 2012. Страницу 42. Вот что там написано. Говорится, что даже фут-фетиш может мужскую идентичность под сомнение поставить.
In this context,mainly concepts and needs(allegedly)deviating from stereotype
gender roles are relevant,particularly when they impress as unchangeable compo-
nents of the sexual preference structure, but as such are not adequately perceived.
This concerns especially the “third axis”of sexual preference structure, namely the
manner of the favored sexual practice with the desired partner(seeChap.4.4).If,in
a man sexually orientated toward women,these are not directed at vaginal penetra-
tion, instead,for instance,a female foot has received fetish allocation(see the case
report in Chap.4.1),this might tend toa feeling of“not being a real man”,because
of repeated observation,not tocome up to the expectations of the female sexual
partner. Usually thisis measured in comparison to what the concerned man believes
“women(allegedly)want”.